About the song
“Father & Son” by Yusuf / Cat Stevens is a profoundly moving song that has resonated with listeners for decades, encapsulating the timeless struggle between generations and the deep-seated emotions that accompany it. Originally released in 1970 on his album Tea for the Tillerman, this track showcases Stevens’ remarkable ability to address complex human experiences with simplicity and sincerity.
The song narrates a heartfelt conversation between a father and his son, illustrating the friction and misunderstanding that often arise when the older generation’s expectations clash with the younger generation’s aspirations. Through its poignant lyrics and evocative melody, “Father & Son” explores themes of advice, rebellion, and the search for one’s own path. The father’s advice is grounded in his own experiences and desire for his son’s security, while the son’s response reflects his yearning for independence and the need to forge his own destiny.
Yusuf / Cat Stevens’ acoustic arrangement and his distinctive voice lend a raw, emotional depth to the song. His gentle, yet compelling delivery brings an authenticity that speaks directly to the heart, making it easy for listeners of all ages to connect with the sentiments expressed. The simplicity of the guitar accompaniment allows the lyrical content to take center stage, underscoring the intimate nature of the conversation.
“Father & Son” has remained a beloved classic, admired not only for its lyrical honesty but also for its ability to capture the universal experience of navigating the relationship between parent and child. Yusuf / Cat Stevens’ profound storytelling and emotional resonance ensure that this song continues to be relevant and cherished by audiences who appreciate its timeless reflection on the challenges and beauty of familial bonds.
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Lyrics
It’s not time to make a change
Just relax, take it easy
You’re still young, that’s your fault
There’s so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old but I’m happy
I was once like you are now and I know that it’s not easy
To be calm when you’ve found something going on
But take your time, think a lot
Think of everything you’ve got
For you will still be here tomorrow but your dreams may not
Oh, how can I try to explain?
‘Cause when I do he turns away again
It’s always been the same, same old story
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go
It’s not time to make a change
Just sit down, take it slowly
You’re still young, that’s your fault
There’s so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old but I am happy
All the times that I’ve cried
Keepin’ all the things I knew inside
It’s hard but it’s harder to ignore it
If they were right I’d agree
But it’s them they know, not me
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go